Are your clothes rubbing you the wrong way? Does intimacy feel different after kids or due to aging?
Do you just not feel ‘yourself’ anymore? There’s relief !
With 15+ years of specialized experience in cosmetic gynecology and women's health, Dr. Leslie Bender-Ralph, OBGYN, is focused on safety, comfort, and privacy.
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Procedures Overview and Benefits
Discover how our treatments gently restore comfort, confidence, and everyday freedom—without surgery or downtime.
Labiaplasty
What it is:
A cosmetic and functional procedure that reshapes or reduces the size of the labia minora (inner lips) and, in some cases, the labia majora (outer lips).
Benefits:
Reduces discomfort from rubbing, irritation, or pulling during exercise, sex, or daily activities
Improves confidence in the appearance of the genital area
Helps clothes fit more comfortably (e.g., swimsuits, leggings, jeans)
Can improve symmetry and overall appearance between the labia
Who it’s for:
Women who are uncomfortable with the size, shape, or asymmetry of their labia, or experiencing physical discomfort.
Vaginoplasty
What it is:
A surgical procedure that tightens the vaginal canal by repairing and tightening stretched muscles and supportive tissues—often due to childbirth, aging, or laxity.
Benefits:
Restores vaginal tightness and tone
Enhances sexual sensation for the patient and partner
Can improve pelvic floor support
Helps with vaginal laxity that may cause decreased pleasure or a “loose” sensation
Who it’s for:
Women with vaginal laxity after childbirth, aging, or trauma who want improved function and sensation.
THERMIVA
What it is:
A non-surgical, radiofrequency treatment designed to gently heat tissue to improve vaginal and vulvar tightness, elasticity, and overall feminine wellness.
Benefits:
Improves vaginal laxity and enhances tightness
Increases natural lubrication and reduces dryness
Can improve mild urinary leakage
Enhances sensitivity and sexual satisfaction
Smooths and firms external tissue for a more youthful appearance
Who it’s for:
Women experiencing vaginal laxity, dryness, mild urinary incontinence, or changes due to aging, childbirth, or hormonal shifts who want a non-invasive treatment option.
How They’re Different
Although both procedures fall under cosmetic gynecology, they address different concerns:
Labiaplasty focuses on the external tissues (labia) to improve comfort and appearance.
Vaginoplasty focuses on the internal vaginal canal, tightening muscles and tissues to improve function and sensation.
Labiaplasty is often chosen for aesthetic concerns or physical irritation, while vaginoplasty is chosen for sexual function and internal tightening.
Together or separately, these procedures can boost comfort, confidence, and quality of life—but they target two very different areas and goals.
At GYN Solutions & Aesthetics, we are focused on just that: SOLUTIONS and AESTHETICS. If you think cosmetic gynecology is something that would help you in your life, book a private consultation with Dr. Leslie Bender, and together you can find the plan that is best suited to your unique needs.
Our Amazing Testimonials
Listen to our patients and hear what they have to say about their experience with Cosmetic Gynecology and Dr. Bender's expert care and amazing bedside approach.
I'm so glad I decided to have a vaginoplasty. My experience with the entire medical team was excellent. From the beginning, I felt fully informed and supported before, during, and after the procedure. The staff was always very friendly, professional, and compassionate. Dr. Bender explained everything to me in a kind, clear, and professional way, which helped ease any concerns I had. The process went even better than I expected—I'm honestly surprised by how great I feel. During the procedure, I was much more comfortable than I imagined and never experienced any pain. My recovery was smooth, easy, and completely problem-free. Now, everything in my daily life feels fine, and I truly feel very blessed. For anyone considering this procedure, I would say: go ahead and do it—trust Dr. Bender. I would absolutely recommend this team to others because they are highly professional and genuinely care about their patients.
I had such a wonderful experience with Dr. Bender-Ralph. She truly listened to me, and I felt heard throughout the entire visit. She was incredibly thorough with her explanations, taking the time to make sure I fully understood everything. Her recommendations were thoughtful and made me feel confident in my care. The office itself was pristine and very welcoming. Also, her staff were professional and kind. I left feeling completely at ease and very well taken care of. I HIGHLY, HIGHLY recommend Dr. Bender-Ralph and her team!
I’m so happy to have found a Dr that genuinely listens, doesn’t pass off your symptoms, takes her time and answers all my questions. I feel very comfortable in their cozy clinic. Highly recommend!
Dr. Bender is very caring. She really listens and understands our challenges as women. Professional and honest. Procedure of inserting pellets was painless and quick.
I had a great experience with Dr. Leslie and her assistant! She is very knowledgeable, professional and very friendly. Love my results. She got herself a forever patient! Thank you.
Meet Dr. Leslie Bender-Ralph
Dr. Leslie Bender-Ralph is a Board-Certified OBGYN with 15+ years of experience supporting women through both medical and aesthetic care. After earning her Chemistry degree from Xavier University and her medical degree from The Chicago Medical School, she completed her residency at SUNY Downstate in New York and later established her practice in the Tampa Bay area, where she lives with her husband and three children.
With extensive training from world-renowned surgeons, Dr. Bender-Ralph specializes in cosmetic gynecology, including labiaplasty and vaginoplasty, along with other advanced pelvic and aesthetic treatments. She understands how sensitive and personal these concerns can be, and she is deeply committed to providing compassionate care with the utmost privacy and discretion.
Alongside her surgical and cosmetic expertise, she continues to deliver babies and remains dedicated to full-scope women’s health. Outside the office, she enjoys baking, family time, and relaxing with their Goldendoodle, Teddy.
Our Locations
13638 W Hillsborough Ave, Tampa, FL
33635
Phone : (813) 214-8133
1068 4th Street N, Suite 5, St Petersburg, FL 33701
Mon-Fri 9am to 5pm
One Saturday/Month - 9 am to 4pm
(ask us about availability)
Frequently Asked Questions
How long is the recovery time?
Most patients return to light activities within a few days.
* Labiaplasty: swelling and tenderness improve within 1–2 weeks; full healing occurs around 6–8 weeks.
* Vaginoplasty: internal healing takes longer, with most patients returning to normal activities at 4–6 weeks and full healing at 8–12 weeks.
Will it affect sexual function or sensation?
Both procedures are designed to improve comfort and sexual confidence.
* Labiaplasty may reduce physical irritation.
* Vaginoplasty aims to enhance tightness and sensation.
Patients can resume sexual activity once fully healed. Dr. Bender will be able to discuss timelines with you during your private consultation and aftercare follow ups.
Are the results permanent?
Results are long-lasting. Labiaplasty results typically remain stable, while vaginoplasty results can last for years but may change due to childbirth, aging, or hormonal changes.
Is the procedure painful?
Patients are kept comfortable with anesthesia during surgery.
Afterward:
* Labiaplasty may feel sore or swollen for a few days.
* Vaginoplasty may involve deeper muscle soreness.
Pain is manageable with prescribed medications and careful aftercare.
How do I know if I’m a good candidate?
You may be a good candidate if you experience physical discomfort, self-consciousness about the appearance of the labia, or a feeling of vaginal laxity after childbirth or aging. A consultation helps determine which procedure—labiaplasty, vaginoplasty, or both—best matches your goals.
Will there be visible scars?
Labiaplasty scars are minimal and usually hidden within the natural folds of the tissue. Vaginoplasty involves internal sutures, so scars are not visible externally. Over time, both typically heal very discreetly.
Can these procedures be combined?
Yes. Many patients choose to combine labiaplasty and vaginoplasty during the same surgical session to address both internal and external concerns at once. This can reduce overall downtime and provide more comprehensive results.
Your Trusted Partner In women's health
At GYN Solutions & Aesthetics, we understand the importance of finding a healthcare provider who prioritizes both your physical and emotional well-being.
We want to make sure you get the care you need and deserve. To best do that, we have made it our mission to make our cosmetic gynecology services as accessible as possible. One way we are doing this is by making sure we have financing options available for our patients.
If payment plans are something that would be helpful for you to make, then book a private consultation, and Dr. Bender will discuss those options with you!
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